Rethinking Your Teenager
Shifting from Control and Conflict to Structure and Nurture to Raise Accountable Young Adults
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Product details:
- Publisher OUP USA
- Date of Publication 18 March 2020
- ISBN 9780190054519
- Binding Paperback
- No. of pages224 pages
- Size 152x231x17 mm
- Weight 318 g
- Language English 0
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Short description:
By shifting one's mindset from a struggle for control to a framework of structure, nurture, and support, this book will show parents that they can not only survive their children's teenage years, but also enjoy this remarkable stage of change and prepare them for adulthood. Adolescence can be a tumultuous time for both teens and parents, but it is also an amazing developmental phase that can deepen, rather than damage, parent-child relationships.
MoreLong description:
The teenage years. . . parents fear this stage, dreading it even while watching their adorable toddlers explore the world. When it arrives, they try to control their teenager, in turn causing their teenager to push back more intensely. It's a natural instinct on both sides: teenagers are changing in every way while trying to assert their independence, and parents are faced with the challenge of coming up with rules, expectations, and standards for behavior without a genuine understanding of what is happening. But the result of this pattern is a parent-child relationship defined by conflict and reactivity--a breeding ground for stress, anger, and anxiety, all of which reinforcing those same cultural stereotypes and worst fears.
But it doesn't have to be this way. In this book, family therapist Darby Fox challenges parents to redefine the goals of adolescence by reorienting their focus from what they want their child to be to on who they want their child to be. Darby not only equips parents with the insight to understand the changes taking place in their child's brain and body and support their adolescent's bid for independence, but also offers an approach that allows parents to engage their adolescent in a relationship instead of struggling in an endless battle for control. The book is organized around a series of persistent myths about adolescence, each of which the author tears down with a combination of cutting edge neuroscience research, developmental psychology, and her own mix of clinical observations and experience raising four children.
Darby offers a new model for the parent-child relationship, encouraging parents to let go of the attempt to control their teenager and focus instead on creating mutual respect, providing structure and nurture, and encouraging independence in their developing teenager. She walks through the keys to combining structure and nurture and teaches parents how to connect with their teen while holding them accountable for their behavior. If parents approach teen years with the same thoughtful preparation, sense of awe and wonder, and responsibility that they do the early childhood years, it can be an enjoyable and rewarding developmental stage that deepens, rather than damages, parent-child relationships.
Table of Contents:
Foreword, by Dr. Habib Sadeghi, author of The Clarity Cleanse
Introduction
Chapter One. The First Myth: Teenagers Are Young Adults Who Choose to Act Immature
Chapter Two. The Second Myth: Teenagers Behave Badly Because of Raging Hormones and There Is Nothing We Can Do About It
Chapter Three. The Third Myth: Adolescents Shut out Adults and Listen Only to Their Peers
Chapter Four. The Fourth Myth: Adolescents Don't Need a Lot of Sleep, They're Just Lazy
Chapter Five. The Fifth Myth: Adolescents Are Amazing Multitaskers
Chapter Six. The Sixth Myth: Alcohol and Marijuana Only Temporarily Impact My Teen
Chapter Seven. The Seventh Myth: Teenagers Engage in Risky Behavior to Irritate Their Parents
Conclusion. Redefining Achievement and Failure
